Thursday, August 30, 2012

Life after Love

"Love comes to those who believe in it.'' I think this is true since I have been in and out of love several times and what I think now is love works only if the both of you are totally committed in making it work despite the setbacks. SMajor setbacks can be friends you both have who dont believe in love and who are willing to die just to see you two fall apart and break up. I kind of loath such people, first of all, its just twisted wanting to destroy what two people have by either sleeping; having an affair with one of them; or just making up false accusations to one of the partners just to enjoy seeing them argue.

Love is a precious thing, It is a feeling that makes your heart sing. Whether you are far or near, it is like whispering in my ear. When you find true love, it is something you keep within your heart. But do beware that giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they’ll love u back, don’t expect love in return, just wait it to grow in there heart but if it doesn’t,  be content it grew in yours. Love is the ability to look into someones eyes and know the silent message they send. Here's a great love quote..

''Every time we meet you take my breath away and every time you kiss me, you give it back.''

After my last breakup, which left me in quite a mess, i swore never to fall in love that easily. This is because most happy people either want to use you or get used by you, but mostly they do want to use you, take what you have and leave you with questionmarks and a bad self esteem of yourself, if they din't take the whole of it. I'm looking for someone who will love me for me and not take me for granted just because I'm a bit naive, honest and over-ambitious. Someone who can watch a horror movie with me till 11pm on the sofa on a rainy day, and tell me the truth no matter how much it hurts. If youre out there, call me maybe. I do swear that i have been lost in oblivion for the last couple of days, over love, my bad experiences in the past really make me think it's overrated but a part of me still thinks it works. More so since i have buddies of mine who have been together for 2 years plus. I wonder how they do it, but i do know that one of the couple is in an open relationship. I'd never do an open relationship, rather i'd stay single and remain stress free than everyday jealousness over some random stranger one night stand your partner brought over to your shared house. No thats totally not me.

Sweetness, she is a great best friend, FOREVER BABY!! has always been here for me during the downs of breakup, comforting me and reminding me of what they lost by leaving me. I love you darling, hope you're reading this. Anyway, gotta go now, I have this migraine that just won't go away, talk to y'all later. Live, Enjoy, Experiment, Pray and most of all LOVE!!

c ya!

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